A lot of people seem to know a lot about our dad.
Over his lifetime, our father, Drew Edmondson, has earned his reputation as a man who gets things done. He is a man of integrity and humility, an unflinching advocate and a fierce adversary, a straight-shooter, someone worthy of your friendship, your trust and your vote.
That’s our dad.
But he’s also the man who remembered to put batteries in our transistor radios on Christmas Eve, and then let Santa take the credit on Christmas morning. He told us stories about the ghost of Ned Christie around the campfire on the banks of the Baron Fork River on hot Oklahoma nights. He taught us how to skip rocks across the water, catch crawdads and spot ancient fossils embedded in stone. He taught us the lyrics of our first “grown-up” song, "Hot Rod Lincoln."
Most evenings we unplugged the phone, turned off the TV and ate supper together, as a family, even when it meant Mom and Dad enduring our teenage drama. Though a powerful public speaker, the dad we know read
The Hobbit to us bit by bit each night after dinner, making it come alive for us with voices for each character. And then he would send us to sleep with old Hogie Carmichael tunes on Willie Nelson’s
Stardust album.
Our dad, the dad we know, is a man of unguarded laughter with a side-splitting sense of humor; but he can also quote many of his heroes from memory, and would often do so as a way of teaching life's lessons. He was particularly fond of a passage from Robert Kennedy’s 1966 speech in Capetown.
“There is a Chinese curse which says ‘May he live in interesting times.’ Like it or not we live in interesting times. They are times of danger and uncertainty; but they are also more open to the creative energy of men than any other time in history.”
Dad prepared us to meet the challenges of “danger and uncertainty” by pushing us to succeed in school, encouraging our creativity, honing our critical thinking skills and fostering a strong sense of independence and personal accountability. He taught us to consider others first, to tell the truth even when it’s hard, and to live our lives so that at the end of every day we can be proud of our efforts.
He is an amazing dad. He is an amazing person.
So this Sunday, we will celebrate our dad, Drew Edmondson, as a man who is tough but fair, thoughtful but decisive, passionate but disciplined, dedicated to his work but committed to his family before all. Today, we will thank him for his example, and we will strive, as we do every day, to follow it.
Sincerely,
Mary Edmondson Ross and Robert Edmondson